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Question: Harmless, or out of bounds?

Dear Lounge Advice,
We have been in the lifestyle for 7 years and this last weekend when with a couple the Mrs got unsettled by Mr giving the woman a kiss on her chest after having sex.
Mr doesn't see any harm in it. Mrs sees it as a lovers gesture. It has never happened before and there is a history with the couple.
What is your take on this.



Dear (Anonymous),

I would just advise you not to do it anymore. Yes, it was harmless, but I can see her side too. Tender gestures such as this can set off a woman. Don't get overzealous trying to be proactive about not doing something, but if she mentions a discomfort, just discontinue.
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