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Lifestyle Sexual Advice
Does this make me a cuckold?
We have tried Bi sites and have not had any luck.
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Lifestyle Etiquette
Perhaps I just want to know your opinion and if you agree that their behavior was rude?
I have a single male friend that I play with
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Relationship Advice
My fantasy is simply being with a man that wants to be with 'only me' and loves me most of the time. I really don't think he does any more.
How can I help her to feel more comfortable about returning to the lifestyle?
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Friendships, Clubs & More...
How do we expand and see more near us ?
I was thinking to try to meet a girl on the site to go to parties with, any advice?
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Question: Harmless, or out of bounds?

Dear Lounge Advice,
We have been in the lifestyle for 7 years and this last weekend when with a couple the Mrs got unsettled by Mr giving the woman a kiss on her chest after having sex.
Mr doesn't see any harm in it. Mrs sees it as a lovers gesture. It has never happened before and there is a history with the couple.
What is your take on this.



Dear (Anonymous),

I would just advise you not to do it anymore. Yes, it was harmless, but I can see her side too. Tender gestures such as this can set off a woman. Don't get overzealous trying to be proactive about not doing something, but if she mentions a discomfort, just discontinue.
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