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Question: Threesome with a less than appealing member

Dear Lounge Advice,

I am part of a threesome, the husband and I play with the wife. Sometimes together with her and some times alone with her. In the past we have played with other couples but now the husband is beginning to gain a lot of weight and couples are beginning to not want to play because he is gaining weight.

I am thinking about leaving this couple but the wife is so hot!! I have tried making hints about eating right or getting up to go to the gym after a night of passion. Besides leaving this couple. What else can I do. We were on vacation together and this younger couple would have played with us but the female said that the husband just did not turn her on. Any suggestions?



Dear (Anonymous),

Weigh your options here.
You can stay a part of this threesome and risk rejection because of him, but you get her.

OR, you can leave this couple and increase your chances of play, but lose her.

OR, you can stay with them and be honest with him.

Which one of these options has the least negative impact on you? Yes, each one comes with sacrifice, but it has to be dealt with.

Again, weigh your options and determine carefully what is going to impact your happiness the most. I can't give you any further advice since the decision is now yours to make.
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