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Lifestyle Sexual Advice
Does this make me a cuckold?
We have tried Bi sites and have not had any luck.
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Lifestyle Etiquette
Perhaps I just want to know your opinion and if you agree that their behavior was rude?
I have a single male friend that I play with
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Relationship Advice
My fantasy is simply being with a man that wants to be with 'only me' and loves me most of the time. I really don't think he does any more.
How can I help her to feel more comfortable about returning to the lifestyle?
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Friendships, Clubs & More...
We are new to this site and the lifestyle.
How do we expand and see more near us ?
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Question: Firefighter worried about discovery in the lifestyle

Dear Lounge Advice, I am a firefighter and none of my pics identify me as such. I have also taken the time to blur all face shots of myself. have you ever heard of anyone being punished for simply being on this site if they are unidentifiable? I am sure that there are professionals from all walks of life enjoying the use of this site and I was just wondering if there are any rules to navigating through it or am I handling myself appropriately.

Thank you,



Dear (Anonymous),

I am an elementary school teacher. I understand your concern.
You have taken good action by blurring out your face. No, I have never heard of an obscured picture being recognized, but that doesn't mean that it's not possible. Improbable, but not impossible.

To make it more comfortable, don't tell people what you do. The less information shared equates to a lower risk.

You cannot be punished by an employer if they cannot prove that it's you. I would bet my next paycheck that a lawyer would relay this to you as well.

You shouldn't have to worry needless about this. You have taken a wise step, and if the small probability of being "uncovered" comes to fruition, you have legal ground to battle it, especially if you were never required to sign a morality clause (like some teachers have to).
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