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Question: Wanting too much from my wife after MFM?

Dear Lounge Advice,

Me and my wife have been in the lifestyle for a few years now and like all couples we've had our ups and downs. We recently had our first mfm and we had a pretty good time, but after she got done with him and he was gone she had no energy to finish me ( something i anticipated) but she said dont worry babe i'm gonna finish you off... all the while I'm knowing shes gonna eat and go to bed. So the next morning i try several times to get her up for some early morning sex and realized she was to tired. When she did wake up I made remarks about how it would have been nice if she woke up and finished me off because I was horny as hell from watching her the night before. She then proceeds to say " I didn't know it had to be right now" and my response was "I thought you would at least make sure your man was taken care of" I could go on but the conversation isn't pretty from there on. Normally she goes out and plays by herself which makes me extremely horny as well and when she gets home its the same story. No energy for me and i pretty much have to wait a whole day if not longer before it happens. Now her reasoning is She has sex with me all the time so whats the big deal. I just want to know am I being selfish to ask her to have sex with me after she gets done with another man ... It doesn't have to be that night but at least that next morning. Is that really to much to ask. Or should i just be happy she had a good time and that's that. Don't get me wrong i loved watching her and would have loved to have been a more active participant but she just can't seem concentrate on anyone else when being pleasured. Am i being selfish. Is it wrong to ask her for sex after shes's had a night of fun. Or should I be content with just knowing she had a good time and relocate myself to the bathroom and finish myself as she suggest

Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

Perhaps the next morning is also a bit too soon, if indeed she is low on energy. Any morning after vigorous activity can be tiring. So try this: Hold off next time, then hit her up the next evening after you both relive the experience with some steamy conversation. If she still isn't receptive, I'd recommendc re-evaluating this arrangement with some serious conversation about mutual needs.
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