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Lifestyle Sexual Advice
Does this make me a cuckold?
We have tried Bi sites and have not had any luck.
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Lifestyle Etiquette
Perhaps I just want to know your opinion and if you agree that their behavior was rude?
I have a single male friend that I play with
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Relationship Advice
My fantasy is simply being with a man that wants to be with 'only me' and loves me most of the time. I really don't think he does any more.
How can I help her to feel more comfortable about returning to the lifestyle?
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Friendships, Clubs & More...
How do we expand and see more near us ?
I was thinking to try to meet a girl on the site to go to parties with, any advice?
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Question: New and wondering

Dear Lounge Advice,

My wife and I are brand new to this and are looking to connect with a woman to start out and then possibly connect with another couple later.
We went to one take over party and it kind of freaked my wife out a bit. A guy was getting serviced on the dance floor when we walked in, and full on sex was happening in the booths next to the dance floor..

so we are venturing back,but would like to know the best way to meet and greet other people in a casual atmosphere.or any other tips you could offer to help us ease into this..

Thank you,



Dear (Anonymous),

Go ahead and visit the advice archives for advice about single women. Then, comb through the "newbie" advice".

Come on back to me after reading the general advice, and I'll be more than happy to elaborate on more specific questions :)
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