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Lifestyle Sexual Advice
How do you get a metal cock ring on?
Does this make me a cuckold?
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Lifestyle Etiquette
Am I allowed to be on LL and will others understand I am part of a couple but seeking adventures on my own?
seeking to find cuckold situations in real lifeā€¦
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Relationship Advice
there is never enough time….
Is he hitting spots I will never be able to hit
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Friendships, Clubs & More...
Do you know of anyone that would be in swinging that gives such a massage?
Any suggestions as to clubs, and how we set boundaries?
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Question: I don't want to lose my idiotic man O.o

Dear Lounge Advice, My man that i have been with for four years just told me that he wants nothing to do with me any more. I got in the lifestyle because he was in it and i wanted to do it with him. i meet new people and we loved it but now that im meeting new peolpe he has an addatude and dont wat me talikng to the people we meet. he thinks im now messing around on him and i would never,never do that to him I LOVE HIM SOOO MUCH. please can u give me some advice. i dont want to lose him. S



Dear (Anonymous),

WOMAN!! Get a pair of goddamn balls and realize that this guy does NOT love you if he is placing the lifestyle above you.

Wake up sweetness. Why the hell don't you want to lose a man who is possessive and noncommittal??
(Trust me, I know the type VERY well)
You sound like ME, ten years ago.

Wise the fuck up and respect yourself more.
Do you REALLY want to spend the rest of your life with a man who doesn't make you #1?

If you say yes, then you're a fool.

If you say no, then what are you waiting for?
If I could walk away from two "loving" relationships (marriages) in my twenties, then you can do it too.
It's hard, but worth it.

Isn't your self-worth important?
If my hard earned experiential advice doesn't sink in, then so be it.
Don't say you weren't warned :)
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