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Lifestyle Sexual Advice
Does this make me a cuckold?
We have tried Bi sites and have not had any luck.
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Lifestyle Etiquette
Perhaps I just want to know your opinion and if you agree that their behavior was rude?
I have a single male friend that I play with
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Relationship Advice
My fantasy is simply being with a man that wants to be with 'only me' and loves me most of the time. I really don't think he does any more.
How can I help her to feel more comfortable about returning to the lifestyle?
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Friendships, Clubs & More...
How do we expand and see more near us ?
I was thinking to try to meet a girl on the site to go to parties with, any advice?
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Question: Buyer's remorse

Dear Lounge Advice,
We have been into Lifestyle for the last two years. We have stayed with soft swap most of the time. We met a very nice couple that "clicked" immediateley with us so we went full swap same room, her idea. Next day my wife had buyers remorse.I suggested we stay on track with soft-swap only. I have noticed that recently she really seems to enjoy mainly, girl on girl action.
I am ok with whatever she likes and always have a great time with her by nights end.
I am concerned that she denies, she'd rather play with the girls. Maybe she is embarassed?
How to approach her?

Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

You approach her openly and honestly. You can't skirt around this issue with her. It's too important not to bring up.
Just ask her the same questions you typed to me. Also, tell her that you are okay with whatever she would like to do.
There is nothing wrong in bringing up questions and concerns. If you don't,nothing will get accomplished.
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