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Question: My wife has a MFM fantasy, but when the situation presents itself for real, she says no.

Dear Lounge Advice,

My wife and I are new to the lifestyle. We have not tried anything as of yet. My wife has a MFM fantasy and I want to fulfill it for her. Our problem is every time I find a couple or single male for her she makes a face and says she won't do it. Am I making the wrong approach, does she really not want this? I know it makes her very hot when she sees a MFM in a movie and then she talks about what she would like to have done if she ever had two men at once. Help me out, how can I give her what she wants.

Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

This is impossible for us to answer without knowing WHY she is saying she won't do it.

She may have the fantasy, but does she really want to act on it?

Maybe she just isnt attracted to the people that you have found, and maybe you should let her find them.
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