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Question: Getting past jealousy

Dear Lounge Advice,

My bf and I have been talking about finding a woman to join us. I am intrigued by the whole scene, but am really content with just him. I have never been with a woman and not sure about the whole thing.
I really love my bf and am jealous to think of him with the another woman. He assures me how much fun we will all have and I won't be neglected.

How do I get past this jealousy?



Dear (Anonymous),

You get past the jealousy by NOT partaking in this right now. Tell him that you are not ready for this yet. If he cares about your feelings, he will lay off of the pursuit.
He can wait until you're ready, and if you never get to that point, he should love you enough to respect that.
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