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Question: Seeking a LS friendly partner

Dear Lounge Advice,

Hi, you've probably heard this a thousand times but I think I have a fresh perspective on an old question.

I am a single guy and i am looking to meet people. I know the drill. Couples generally want couples and unicorns. I get it, I have been part of a couple, so I understand.

While i would love to play with those rare couples that are seeking single me, I am open to this, my real interest is in finding my lover.

I decided to create profile here because I am looking for a woman open to the lifestyle and while I have dated successfully on vanilla sites, this is a part of my personality that I do not want to suppress, so I need to find a woman who is in on it.

I have been on for a few days and sent out the standard "Hi I'm new and looking to make friends... blah blah blah" e-mails but no one seems to be shooting back.

Any suggestions on meeting the single ladies? I am all ears.



Dear (Anonymous),

First, I would highly suggest a change of username. It's not very classy.
Second, your profile, although well-fleshed out, is too akin to a dating ad. Frankly, the multitude of qualities you are seeking out are going to make your odds much more narrow.
Stick to your standards, but be aware that you are in competition with tens of thousands of other single males.
My kind ( single females open to a lifestyle friendly partner for longterm ) are rare.
Stick to the single male etiquette I so often espouse in my advice archives. With persistence comes more payoff as long as you go about it the right way.
Good luck
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