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Question: Why women are the primary sex objects
Dear Lounge Advice,
Why is there a double standard
With women being the primary
Sex object ie photo contests etc
I don't enjoy being a subordinate
You're only subordinate if you allow yourself to be.
Women are beautiful creatures, and being that many lifestyle women are bisexual, the allure of looking at a beautiful woman is twofold.
Perhaps if you boys would get off your cute butts and enter more photos in the contests, you could keep up with the ladies.
And as for "double standards", the term really doesn't apply to your complaint. This is more a matter of people's preferences than holding something to two sets of standards.
Oh, and check out our society. Do you not see this same phenomenon in everyday life? This isn't something that's exclusive to the websites dear.
A pretty woman IS the primary sex object in real life.
So let's stop complaining about something that will probably never change and just enjoy the scenery, shall we?
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