Dear Lounge Advice, SO we have tried the all pass thing I(mr) dont really like it, i am not there to see whats going on, i think its a security issue. Now the Mrs understands and yet she tell me i am able to hall pass anytime i want and she is fine with this. Should I do hallpass even tho i wont let her have more? is this a way for her to get a hallpass? Sincerely, (Anonymous)

Dear (Anonymous), If you are both comfortable with the arrangement, then by all means, partake in it.