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Lifestyle Sexual Advice
We have tried Bi sites and have not had any luck.
Does DP increase the chance of a vaginal infection?
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Lifestyle Etiquette
Perhaps I just want to know your opinion and if you agree that their behavior was rude?
I have a single male friend that I play with
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Relationship Advice
My fantasy is simply being with a man that wants to be with 'only me' and loves me most of the time. I really don't think he does any more.
How can I help her to feel more comfortable about returning to the lifestyle?
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Friendships, Clubs & More...
I was thinking to try to meet a girl on the site to go to parties with, any advice?
What is a unicorn?
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Question: Single female seeking the unusual

Dear Lounge Advice,

I am a single female seeking single males in the lifestyle. I keep getting messages from couples who don't read my profile where I clearly indicate that I am seeking single men and not couples or married men with hall passes. These couples will even try to talk me into getting interested which is frustrating and a waste of my time and inbox.

I can't find clubs that allow single men, at least none of quality that I'd feel comfortable going to alone. It seems everyone expects single women in the lifestyle to be bisexual and seeking couples. Is this true? Is swinging defined as a single girl must be bisexual and interested in couples? How can I get people to respect and take serious what I am seeking specifically?



Dear (Anonymous),

If people like that are contacting you, ignore and delete. They are worth a response if they can't read. Moreover, if they read your preferences and still try to convince you, they need to go.
But as for the perceived 'requirements' for this lifestyle, ignore them. You stick with your preferences, not matter what.
If people can't respect that, shame on them!
Stick to your guns hun!
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