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Question: My girlfriend is willing to check it out the lifestyle, but is scared it may ruin our relationship.

Dear Lounge Advice,
i have wanted to be in this lifestyle for years, but previous girlfriends never wanted to even explore it.my girlfriend now is willing to check it out but is scared to try meeting another couple.she thinks it might ruin what we have,like someone is gonna try to steal someone or whatever.this is super important to me.if she's never really shown her own true interest in it,what do i do?

Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

It sounds like she is insecure about your relationship at this point. There is nothing that you can do except work on developing your own relationship with her before you try to include others. The fears that she has is very real for her and if you continue to push it is only going to exaserbate those fears.

Why dont you make it super important for her to feel secure in your relationship first.
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