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Question: Bi comfortable- a nebulous term defined in my eyes

Dear Lounge Advice,what is bi comfortable

Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

It is a term that is open to interpretation, but here is my point of view on the term.
Bi comfortable is someone that doesn't necessarily pursue the bi-sexual experience, but someone who isn't scared off by it either.
This type of person can either range from one whom tolerates same sex dancing and touching, to someone who will participate in bisexual play when the situation arises.
I recently played with a woman who labels herself as bi-comfortable, but was able to do the full monty with her in a FFM threesome. She was 'comfy' with it, but she's not the type to go after it. She merely partook in it because it was part of the evening's festivities.
But again, a totally different bi-comfortable person may want to have nothing to do with oral, kissing or anything else remotely physical. It may be a simple case of feeling comfortable in the mere presence of another who is bi or gay.
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