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Question: Non-equity

Dear Lounge Advice, my wife and I have been in the lifestyle for many years. The only good ones are when my wife ignores my needs and only focuses on hers. She doesn't even care if I have an orgasm. She never listens to the things i say or want. Is it worth staying with a person whonhas no regard for her husband?. PS. She admits I do anything and everything I can to please hear. Thought this was a two way street

Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

It's not a two way street and if it's not equitable, you two don't belong in the lifestyle. Put your foot down and let her know that if you don't feel important and treated fairly, then you don't belong in this lifestyle. Just like a relationship, it takes two in order to achieve equity. It's time for a serious talk. If you continue on like this, you're allowing it to continue. Don't allow yourself to be forsaked. Stand up for yourself.
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