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Question: Men not wanting to do oral

Dear Lounge Advice,
Lately, I have come across 2 separate men that say they don't perform oral sex on women that they meet online. (one says it is too intimate, and the other says he only fucks women, no oral).

This is a total shocker to me. Since becoming part of the lifestyle about 6 months ago, I have come across so many men that are crazy about oral. In fact, it was never something that I liked until these lifestyle men convinced me to try it again.

So, I wonder, should that be something that I ask ask a guy when screening him (before an initial meeting)? I guess I equate a guy that does not do oral with a selfish lover....So, if that is something they don't do, then I am not interested in having a sexual experience with them.




Dear (Anonymous),

Sheesh- I truly have never encountered this in my 15 years in the lifestyle. If this is something you enjoy and require for a fulfilling sexual experience, then by all means, ask beforehand! You are in the right to ask any question you'd like in order to see if the man is the right fit.
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