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Question: Not getting the attention

Dear Lounge Advice,

I started on the site 3 days ago, and am brand new to the lifestyle. A decent number of people have viewed my profile. Why aren't they contacting me? Is it because I'm new and they don't know if I'm ok or crazy? Are people not in to voluptuous, Black girls? I feel like I'm starting school, and don't know how to make friends yet. Any guidance is much appreciated.



Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

Hello;

Welcome to the Lounge. I think you will do just fine here. The only suggestions I can add would be add more pictures and become realsealed.

Many members don't trust new members who are not realsealed


I hope that helps.
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