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Question: She's not fresh! What to do?

Dear Lounge Advice,
Our first try at couple couple and the girl was not fresh. How would've been the best way to say something.
We simply stopped. I wanted to say something the but other spouse did not want to hurt feelings or embarrass her.

Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

There are a few ways to be subtle and still get to play. If you find that this is an issue, take the fun into the shower and just play it as wanting to get frisky with some water. Foreplay can be soaping each other down and stroking each other's naughty bits with soap to get both excited. Then, she's clean and the game is on.
What you can also do (woman to woman) is say "Hey, I want to just in the shower/bath quickly after our night out to make sure I'm squeaky clean. Would you like to join me?"
If she's not in the showering mood, he can swipe his fingers across her pussy and stealthily place those fingers somewhere close to her nose. If he wants, he can even ask her to suck his fingers and taste herself (of course, as a kinky part of foreplay and not as an indictment). If she is still oblivious after this, then it's probably time to stop. There really isn't a great way of telling someone that they have a stinker without feeling getting hurt, or some major embarasment. Perhaps just having a partner stop may be hint enough.
So, try these battle tactics next time and see how it goes.
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