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Lifestyle Sexual Advice
Does this make me a cuckold?
We have tried Bi sites and have not had any luck.
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Lifestyle Etiquette
Perhaps I just want to know your opinion and if you agree that their behavior was rude?
I have a single male friend that I play with
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Relationship Advice
Does the lifestyle break up couples?
How do I reel him back in or can I?
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Friendships, Clubs & More...
Any thoughts? Any resources, swinger sites, clubs, well-known
What can a SM do in the crazy world of LA swing?
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Question: On again off again

Dear Lounge Advice,

a few years back i told you what was happening between my husband and I and your advice was to leave him because as you explained once a cheater always a cheater...we split got back split got back more times then i want to admit. 2 yrs ago we got back all was great i gave him the open marriage and the freedom of a hall pass as he travels a lot fot work. i still enjoy our lifestyle vacations and the parties. last march i found he was talking to a old girlfriend he was dating when we were split up, she is the one person i asled him not to have contact because they had had a realationship on a more personal level. he doesnt understand why it would make me angry. we are now once again apart and it really breaks my heart. so my question is should continue to go to parties and the upcoming cruise on LL and live apart as singles or once again tell him to hit the road cause he wants it all. thanks for listening... D



Dear (Anonymous),

You're single now. From him, for good. You HAVE learned your lesson now, right?
Move on. If you interact with him after all that has transpired, frankly...... You're a fool.
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