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Question: Just starting out... how do we find a single bi fem.

Dear Lounge Advice,

We are starting to want more out of our sex life and we are looking for a female partner to join us. How do we go about doing this and doing it right so no one gets hurt.



Dear (Anonymous),

It seems that based on your question you are in the very early stages... in order to insure that no one gets hurt, you need to communicate with each other and make sure that you are in agreement that you are doing this together as a couple... and not just seeking enjoyment for one of you.

Now where to find one... that is the question that confounds the masses here... how to find the illusive single bi fem that actually will want to have sex with the two of you with no emotional involvement !!

Tell ya what.. if you find her... let us know..LOL!!

Its not that bad... the local swing clubs, parties or socials are a good start... women have to have a lot of strength to go up to a single woman in a straight club and ask if they are bi... but at one of the couples clubs you are sure not to offend anyone with that quesiton.

Best of all... start right here one the Lifestyle Lounge !!!

Good luck... take is slow... and let us know how it turns out..
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