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Question: wondering how to handle separate play as the hubby half

Dear Lounge Advice,

My wife and I have been opening up our relationship over the past
few years and have met some great couples who have become
incredible sex partners and friends. This has enhanced our relationship. More recently we have decided that playing separate
is something we wanted to explore. Unfortunately, the world is
not fair. LOL. An attractive women has many more opportunities
to explore playing alone than a male.

I have two questions. Do single guys think a man is a loser for allowing this? They appear to benefit the most. Second, How have other couples handled this? I feel a strange combination of envy and jealousy.



Dear (Anonymous),

Who cares what otherwise think of what you do? If you would truly like to know how other couples have handled this, then you should consider posting this in the forum since I am just one woman and can offer a limited point of view. You would receive more appropriate feedback from a large group of members ;-)
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