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Lifestyle Sexual Advice
Does this make me a cuckold?
We have tried Bi sites and have not had any luck.
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Lifestyle Etiquette
Perhaps I just want to know your opinion and if you agree that their behavior was rude?
I have a single male friend that I play with
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Relationship Advice
My fantasy is simply being with a man that wants to be with 'only me' and loves me most of the time. I really don't think he does any more.
How can I help her to feel more comfortable about returning to the lifestyle?
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Friendships, Clubs & More...
We are new to this site and the lifestyle.
How do we expand and see more near us ?
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Question: Charlotte bi scene

Dear Lounge Advice,

I am new to the Charlotte area and I have still not told anyone I am bisexual. 28 days now in Charlotte and Im sick of boring weekends. I want to meet someone to have some fun with. I have never tried anything sexual with a guy before but I really want to try it. I dont know how to meet someone for an encounter, or where to meet them to be honest with you. I need someone to point me in the right direction on how I can possibly get the ball rolling here. I dont want to be seen in public yet but I am ready to try new things here. Please, any advice would help.



Dear (Anonymous),

You can try Craiglist or the backpage of your local nightlife mag ( you can find the publications for free in local bars). If you donít want to go into public to search, this is your best choice to dip your toes into the water, no matter where you live.
When you are ready for the public scene, let me know. I lived in Charlotte for a few years.
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