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Question: The right combo of a boyfriend and a swing partner

Dear Lounge Advice
I have a wonderful swing partner, but i want more. Where do you recommend finding a single male who would like to date and swing. So far I have met married men, single men only wanting to swing and other. I am a fun, laid-back person but have found it difficult to find the right combo of fun, sexy and mine :)
CP

Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

For me, I stopped looking on these sites or it,
I found it by sheer dumb luck, in person. He literally appeared on my doorstep, introduced to me by a mutual lifestyle friend.
You see, I figure its a mathematical matter of probability.
It seems more likely to find a guy off these sites who is wanting a relationship, THEN will be open to the lifestyle, rather than finding a swing partner on the websites, who will THEN want a relationship.
Find the most important need first (the relationship) then pursue the secondary (the lifestyle) rather than the other way around.
Make sense?
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