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Question: He thinks I should see smís alone, but I donít want to

Dear Lounge Advice,

We both enjoy lifestyle events and there are no jealousy issues (never have been and doubt there ever will be). But one things remains. We enjoy parties with extra males and I enjoy my time at these parties. My bf thinks that I should see these smís alone (or with him). I canít explain why, but I have no desire to do this. I just enjoy the party scene! Can you help me explain this to him? I havenít done it alone but Iím wondering why I donít want to at all.

Anonymous

Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

Jeez, most guys would LOVE to hear this, AND/OR want to hear this. Just tell him- flatter him. Donít stop and wonder why. Wanting to stay with your partner is great. Perhaps you should press him further to see why he wants you to do this. Are there ulterior motives involved (I.e. he can then request to be with girls on his own)? Just be truthful, as its always in the best interest of everyone involved.
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