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Lifestyle Sexual Advice
Does this make me a cuckold?
We have tried Bi sites and have not had any luck.
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Lifestyle Etiquette
Perhaps I just want to know your opinion and if you agree that their behavior was rude?
I have a single male friend that I play with
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Relationship Advice
My fantasy is simply being with a man that wants to be with 'only me' and loves me most of the time. I really don't think he does any more.
How can I help her to feel more comfortable about returning to the lifestyle?
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Friendships, Clubs & More...
We are new to this site and the lifestyle.
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Question: Approaching the experience again

Dear Lounge Advice

My wife and I are new to the lifestyle, and we unfortunately had a less than good situation with the full swap. She did not like the experience, but is willing to start over with the soft swap. It is not something she isnít interested in, just leary after the first time. What is the best avenue for approaching this again, where she is comfortable?

Jake

Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

You start at the exact spot that she is comfortable with and allow her to lead the way from there. If you try any other approach, youíll probably sour her even more to the situation.
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