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Question: Approaching the experience again

Dear Lounge Advice

My wife and I are new to the lifestyle, and we unfortunately had a less than good situation with the full swap. She did not like the experience, but is willing to start over with the soft swap. It is not something she isnít interested in, just leary after the first time. What is the best avenue for approaching this again, where she is comfortable?




Dear (Anonymous),

You start at the exact spot that she is comfortable with and allow her to lead the way from there. If you try any other approach, youíll probably sour her even more to the situation.
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