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Question: Gay and coming out to my wife

Dear Lounge Advice,
Hi i have just in the past 4 weeks come out of the closet lets say with my wife we have been together since jan 2012 , we have had problems with not enough sex to please her, finally i told her the truth since 1998 i have been gay and only had sex with men up until we got together and i am trying really hard to enjoy the female body parts but i prefer to have oral and anal with men, now i have gotten us to join the swinging lifestyle so my wife can get her male fix and so can i, she is having a hard time thinking she is unattractive because im not into having sex with her even though i love her so much and have given up my men for her , please any advice she thinks i will leave her for a man after awhile.

Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

I have taken some time to really think about this. Iíve come to the conclusion that my advice is not appropriate for this situation. This is truly beyond my scope and I do not feel qualified to answer this.
This issue belongs in the hands of a certified professional. I would not feel right, nor qualified, to answer such an involved marital problem.
Please consider taking this to a marriage counselor if you havenít done so already.
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