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Dear Lounge Advice,
My now ex boyfriend and I ave been in the lifestyle for the last 6yrs. Of which he was also constantly cheating on me. He finally broke t up with me last week but would like to still see me at his convenience.
We have a lifestyle trip booked and he would rathe not cancel. If I do go, Iím not sure what to do? Play or not play? It may be awkward. Should I get totally involved like we use to, and have him see how great it was? Or not sense we are not committed anymore?
Soo confused..... He keeps telling me how much he canít wait to see me with other women and meet new couples, but yet here in town I donít even get to have sex with him anymore!!
To Play or not to Play....
You were in the lifestyle together, and he STILL cheated on you.
He only wants to keep using you to get other couples/females. Without you, how would he get to do that? Donít be a fool.
Do what YOU want to do. If he obviously didnít care about your feelings when you were together, why would you give a damn about him now that youíre not even a couple anymore?
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