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Question: We cant find people to play with up here.

Dear Lounge Advice,
It seems as if my boyfriend and I cannot find anyone to even meet to play with. We are young attractive fit and happy. We are looking for a bi female to play with and the only real thing we want is someone around our ages. But no one will even contact us. Do you have any advice as to how to find someone to play with us? And are there any places in the NJ/NY area we could go to on a regular basis to find someone?



Dear (Anonymous),

Its difficult to find single bi fems if you are not into couples... easier to find a couple that is ok with just girl play...

You can try the clubs and parties in NY/NJ... there are lots of them... Toga Joes parties are fun and something Called Private Parties NJ... and there are some clubs in NJ too (check out the "clubs" section of this site...

If all else fails... make a posting in the "forum" section to ask local couples where to go up there....

Although we used to be from up North.. we have been away a long time and even though we visit.. things change constantly...
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