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Question: Broken rule

Dear Lounge Advice,
My boyfriend broke one of our rules, he starting making out (Kissing and touching) a single female that we took to the party, while I was on the dance floor and when I went to the bathroom. I witnessed it with my own eyes. Everytime I turned my back they were at it, everytime I turned back to face them they stopped. He says he was pretty buzzed, but he knew what he was doing was wrong.(We had a simular problem with me letting a guy kiss me passionatly on the dance floor, 2 years ago). I dont know what or how to feel about it. I feel more like they were hiding what they were doing from me and I dont think a drunk person could do that.


Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

A drunk person is sometimes even more capable of being sneaky.
Regardless, you both need to discuss this and perhaps ask each other if the rules you have set are ’doable’, since you’ve both had lapses. Perhaps also, you need to let the other person (single female or male) know what your rules are too. Perhaps it would be easier to revisit temptation to break the rules if the other person knows it isn’t allowed.
Perhaps since you both broke the same rule. You can both just call it even and start over fresh and agree to actually follow the rules from here on out.
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