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Lifestyle Sexual Advice
Does this make me a cuckold?
We have tried Bi sites and have not had any luck.
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Lifestyle Etiquette
Perhaps I just want to know your opinion and if you agree that their behavior was rude?
I have a single male friend that I play with
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Relationship Advice
Does the lifestyle break up couples?
How do I reel him back in or can I?
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Friendships, Clubs & More...
Any thoughts? Any resources, swinger sites, clubs, well-known
What can a SM do in the crazy world of LA swing?
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Question: Getting our feet wet

Dear Lounge Advice, we are very new to the LS and do not yet know our limits as we have not played yet. We do, however, know that the Mrs would like to play with other women and has a hall pass to play with other men, but Mrs is not sure she is ok with Mr playing with other women. It has been discussed that if the chemistry is there, we will go with the flow and a full swap could happen. We have stated this in our profile so as to not mislead any potential playmates but feel that this is hindering our finding any play at all. What is the best way for us to find playmates and feel our way through until our preferences have been established?



Dear (Anonymous),


I think the best way while you get your feet wet is to attend numerous events and meet n greets. This will give you the ability to meet lots of people without having to decide to play that night. Obviously you will want to continue to communicate with each other through this new period.

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