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Question: Vanilla turning Chocolate
Dear Lounge Advice,
What would be the best approach to "feel out" a woman I meet in a vanilla setting to gauge her interest in joining the lifestyle?
The best way to "feel out" where a woman stands sexually is to ask her. Pick multiple questions that are more LS oriented and gauge her reaction to the questions. There is a bit of "game playing" that you have to engage in, however, you donít want to go off the deep end if she is still learning to swim. Feel free to submit some questions to ASKDOCTORKIMMY for additional help if you are struggling with what types of questions to ask.
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