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Lifestyle Sexual Advice
Does this make me a cuckold?
We have tried Bi sites and have not had any luck.
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Lifestyle Etiquette
How do I use this website to find someone?
Perhaps I just want to know your opinion and if you agree that their behavior was rude?
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Now I don't know if I can trust him.
Does the lifestyle break up couples?
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Friendships, Clubs & More...
What swing club or clubs in Las Vegas are couples only?
Glory Hole any where near the Twin Cities area?
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Question: Thanks, but No Thanks

Dear Lounge Advice, how do you respond to couples that answer your add but you are not interested in would like to be polite in this reguard.



Dear (Anonymous),

Hi There

The best policy is honesty. Letting them know that you appreciate the interest, however, the feeling is not mutual. The other option is to plan to meet for a cocktail to get a chance to really know them and base your decisions on this, because you never know what the possibilities are until you speak/see someone in person...sometimes you get lucky and find the diamond in the rough that way.

There are not many ways to tell someone that you are not interested in them without one or both partners feeling hurt in some way...its an ego deflater...but at the end of the day you are only responsible for you...not how others react.

Good Luck and Stay Sexy
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