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Question: Two to Three...Let’s See ;)

Dear Lounge Advice,

My husband and I are very new to the lifestyle. We have just recently realized that we both want to be with another women, While my husband seems very comfortable with being another women I on the other hand have been thinking. While I would really love to watch my husband with another women will I still feel this way after the "excitement" is over? Im sure in the heat of the moment it will be all good but happens when all is said and done. Will I regret what just happened. My husband reassures me that we are in this lifestyle to have fun and no matter what we will always play together and leave together. Am I over reacting or is this just newbie jitters

Thank you,
Newbie Girl



Dear (Anonymous),

Hi there Newbie Girl

Being new to the LS it is understanding to have feelings that vacillate between "feeling comfortable" with the idea of inviting a third person into your bed and "feeling like a crazed lunatic" for thinking such an idea was ever worth crossing your mind...or that of your husbands...LOL...Two words...TOTALLY NORMAL

Most likely, you will need to have multiple experiences related to this, some of them will be comfortable and some will not, but I am pretty sure none will be bad. It has everything to do with how the two of you handle the situation and if you begin to feel uncomfortable the need for a "safe" word to let your hubby know that you either need a break or need out for the evening. I would suggest taking things very slow and COMMUNICATE about everything, the good, the bad, and the indifferent. The more you are able to comfortably communicate with each other about your feelings the easier it will be for you to transition from being a twosome to a threesome...BTW...Men are ALWAYS going to be "comfortable" sleeping with two hot, sexy women :) Good luck and stay sexy ;)
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