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Question: Disrespect/Abuse vs. Perspective

Dear Lounge Advice,

My partner had 3 encounters just this year alone: he kissed a stranger on New Year’s while we were with another LL couple at Babe’s; he then contacted an LL individual at 2:30 am because he and I got into an argument; and I am not comfortable with the third episode, which he decided to acknowledge when we were walking from the garage into his home at 4 am.

He also has a second profile which he activated in September of 2012 according to the profile history. I was made aware of this approximately 2 months ago.

In addition, he wants to sleep with all the women at LL no matter what my decision is. He will not let any man speak to me where he becomes irate with these individuals.

We had ground rules and he has broken all of it.

What would be your advice?

Thank you.


Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

Hi There

RUN! and I mean fast. Your partner clearly has no boundaries and is completely disrespectful of your relationship. His dishonesty is overwhelming and SHOULD be intolerable by you. Based on the information you have provided, the immaturity level is off the charts, it appears as though you are not in an adult relationship.

You have to ask yourself...what are the benefits of staying in this relationship? Is he going to change? Always strive to be extraordinarily happy in your relationship 80% of the time...if you are not, then I would have to discuss the possibility of a codependence on the relationship.

You must respect yourself enough to not tolerate someone who is disrespecting you.

Good Luck and Stay Sexy!
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