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Question: SM looking for partner

Dear Lounge Advice,I am recently single after my fiancee called everything off a few months ago. How can I bring up LS without being a creep to a female?

Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

Hi There

I would definitely not discuss on the first date..LOL...Take things nice and slow in the beginning. Once you believe you have found someone you are interested in having a relationship with and then you start talking about the things you like and enjoy doing...which eventually leads to a discussion about sex. I would then offer up "hypotheticals"...starting out with, "have you ever experienced a threesome...have you ever been with a girl...have you ever thought of playing with another couple, etc..." and then see what her answers look like.

If she is horrified by the mere mention of a threesome, this is probably not the girl for you. Most people are at least curious about the idea of "stepping outside of the box" with regards to their sexuality, and just havent met the right person to experience it with.

Curiosity is a powerful thing...you do not even need to let her know what your experience has been in the beginning.

Just like everything else in the LS...be patient and take things slow and you should find the right partner for you! Good Luck and Stay Sexy ;)
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