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Dear Lounge Advice,
I am the male half of a couple in the lifestyle (unmarried). I have caught my girlfriend on another swinging site (she doesn’t know that I know) advertising as a couple looking for men or another couple. I am not bi. I have seen that she is ’friending’ single males and obviously corresponding with them, though I don’t know the content of the messages. What is the best way for me to confront her about this? Th!
Sincerely,
(Anonymous)
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Dear
(Anonymous),
Hi There
Very candidly...and the sooner the better. If you believe that the two of you are a couple, and she is "going off the reservation" this needs to be addressed as soon as possible. ESPECIALLY in the lifestyle, open, honest communication is extremely important, because if you do not have that, it is very difficult to have faith and trust in your partner.
You might try writing a letter first in order to make sure you cover all the areas that you have concern. Then, you can either give her the letter, or sit down with her and address each issue one at a time.
You may find that there is no "secretive" motive, and that she really is just interested in different circumstances, however, if this is the case, then she SHOULD be communicating this to you.
Good Luck and Stay Sexy!
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