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Question: The Bi’s the limit ;)

Dear Lounge Advice, When we joined the lifestyle a few years back, I (the mrs) considered myself totally straight. In the past few years I have gone from that...to really enjoying the girls. This is a problem because now it seems as if I am RARLEY attracted to men. It kinda feels like I have to do the guy, so that my hubby can have fun with the girl. Don’t get me wrong, I still love the IDEA of a guy....but dont want to have sex with most of the ones we meet. I am so frustrated. I love the lifestyle and so want to want to be more turned on by them. Help! What can I do??

Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

Hi there

One recommendation that I might make is that you find a single female...or couple where the female is allowed to play on her own and try some FMF action. I cannot imagine that your husband would oppose such a situation ;)

Another alternative, if this is something that you are both comfortable with, is that you play separately...so he can enjoy all the women he wants...and so can you...Don’t get me wrong, I understand that many that are in the LS are in it to enjoy watching each other enjoy pleasuring others. However, it could be something to try considering your current predicament.

A question that I would have for you...Do you still thoroughly enjoy having sex with your husband...and is it simply that you have become "extremely" bisexual?? or is it possible that it is now only women that float your boat??? It happens...it is not a bad thing as long as communication lines stay open. I encourage you to explore some of these ideas with your hubby and see what his thoughts are.

Good Luck and Stay Sexy!

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