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Question: All in...or pause button

Dear Lounge Advice,

As a couple yoy meet and greet another couple and things are going good you start to play and really getting into it
the woman has to stop for a brief moment...(restroom) out of respect should your guy should stop playing til the woman comes back or should he keep playing?

are there any boundaries or should this be even an issue

Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

Hi there

This becomes more of a personal rule/boundary that you set with your partner. If your partner is not okay with the continued play while they are "taking care of business" then it is your responsibility to put a "pause" button on the playtime...and to let the other couple know this. If you and your partner have a boundary where you ONLY play when you are both in the room (and I would highly recommend clearing whatever that means exactly with your partner) then if one has to leave the play area, then a pause button needs to be put on the action. Its also possible that the other couple, who are both still present also have a rule where playtime only happens when everyone is active and able to participate...so it is never a bad thing to just check in with everyone to see where you all stand.

Hope this helps. Good luck and stay sexy.
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