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Question: We are a very new young couple interested in exploring the lifestyle... any suggestions ?
Dear Lounge Advice,
We are new in the Lifestyle and we were wanting to know what is the best way to meet a nice couple willing to do the same things were intrested in like soft swap and full swap? Like i said we are very new at this and it has been something we have been wanting to do for a long time but didnt know how to go about it. We would love some pointers on how to get the ball rolling. We are a young couple age 20 and 24 and we would love to "play" a little with another couple. What would you suggest?
We get asked that general question a lot by newbies and the full answer would require more space than we are allotted here.... as it is very broad.
We will tell you that the first thing you should do is become a member of this website as it is an amazing resource of info for you. You can also go to our regular informational website at www.zacnzoey.com (its not a membership site) as a lot of your "new couples" questions will be answered there. We created that site just so we didnt have to type the same answers over and over.. and we think it will give you a good track to run on.
Another good thing to do is also read the archive of questions previously asked here.
We suggest that instead of trying to hook up with people in a private manner you try to find a couples club/party/social in your area and go and just watch what goes on.... the Lifestyle is not just "playing".. there is a lot of social activities that go along with it.
You can find a listing in the "clubs" section on the Lifestyle Lounge as well.
Our best advice for new couples is to concentrate on the sections that talk about deciding upon your rules for each other and agreeing on what your limitations are. You need to do those steps first to avoid any problems that may crop up.
If you have any specific questions after doing all that... we would be happy to answer them for you.
Good luck and have fun !!!
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