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Question: kept for memories....?

Dear Lounge Advice,
My wife and I were part of the life style for 8 years. I felt that friend here were real and less judgmental. My wife of 15 years had got stomach cancer and 2 months ago she has been taken by god. May she rest in peace. I like the people in the lounge and was wondering how to change my screen name and two. Should I continue to enjoy the lounge ware I would prefer to meet my next love. Or this should be kept for memories. I still love my wife and she is still watching over me. I know she would be ok now with me dating. Anyone want to comment?

Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

First of all our hearts go out to you for the lose of your spouse.
Losing someone close to you is never easy....losing your spouse is a whole different level and we wish you the best as you begin your new path in life with out her by your side.

We would fist advise you on giving yourself plenty of time to mourn the lose of your wife and find your new balance with yourself before opening up a new path in your life.

You really want to find that new balance in your life and heart before moving on.

If you still have close ties and friends on LL...then by all means stay on board and keep them close for good company, friendship and guidance as you move forward.

If you make a new connection that offers new love in your life that is wonderful....but if you don't or decide it is not time to move on yet in your heart...then at least you will be in good company and have happiness in your life until the opportunity presents itself.

Contact the profile ADMINISTRATION on the site if you decide to stay and want assistance in changing your profile name and status.
They are always there to help members with changes like this.


Best of luck to you:-)


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