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Question: A few questions...
Dear Lounge Advice,
I am a single male, invited to this site by another member. I'm new to the lifestyle and very excited about having adventures and learning more about myself. Seeing how few events allow single men to attend, I feel somewhat undesired right off the bat, even though I'm confident in what I bring to the table.
A few questions...
A) What sort of partnership arrangements are welcoming to single men? I don't want to be a pest to people who are not interested.
B) Should I attend couples' events with a female friend, who isn't comfortable with playing, or is that sort of a dishonest practice?
C) What are the negative stigmas about single men and the common mistakes they make? I try to always be a gentleman, but I'd like to hear what others have to say about this.
Thanks for all your help!
-A
Sincerely,
(Anonymous)
Dear
(Anonymous)
,
A) Most couples will post in their profile descriptions if they are open to single males joining....ALWAYS read the profiles carefully.
B)Using a single female (who has no interest in the swinging or the lifestyle) as "bait" to lure a person or couple to meet you....or to use as a "ticket" for attending an lifestyle event is BIG NO NO! Dishonesty and the lifestyle do not mix.
C)If you look around in our advice area or review our forum area....I'm sure you will locate multiple threads on this topic with more examples than I can ever provide you with.
The bottom line is just be courteous to other members and upfront about who you are.
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