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Question: Does this make me a cuckold?

Dear Lounge Advice,my wife has always had a high sex drive.She is very attractive and takes good care of herself and looks much younger then her age.For the last 5 years my contracting business has been crazy busy and I am having problems getting it up. My wife got upset one night when I said "no " to sex and told me she gets more attention from this young guy at work. I rolled over to her and tore off her panties and we had wild passionate sex. My wife wanted more of that but I did not want to talk about it. A few days later she came home from work in a sexy dress and said the young guy was really giving her looks. Once again I took her right there in the kitchen. I did some research and the word " cuckold " came up a lot. it seems like an awful word. If I tell my wife to have a younger sex friend and both she and I enjoy that, does this make me a cuckold ?

Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

Cuckold has several meanings

The traditional use of the term Cuckold implies: the husband of a wife who is cheating on him.

Unlike the traditional definition of the term, in fetish usage a "cuckold" is complicit in his (or her) partner's sexual "infidelity"; the wife who enjoys cuckolding her husband is frequently called a hotwife or a cuckoldress if the man is more submissive.
This "submissive" version usually involves the husband watching....not participating....as his wife/partner has sex with another male....with the husbands blessing.

In your case....if you are not actually observing the sex....I would not consider that as you being a Cuckhold.
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