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Question: Now I don't know if I can trust him.

Dear Lounge Advice,

My boyfriend met a vanilla women who was very attracted to him.
They sent texts back and forth with her sending him naked pictures of herself, because he asked her too.
I found out and saw the texts and pictures.
The texts were about setting up a place to meet me and act like it was a random meeting, so we could have a threesome.
I was very hurt that he went behind my back. Now I don't know if I can trust him.



Dear (Anonymous),

If you two had discussed a scenario like this as part of fulfilling a fantasy for one of you or each other we would not see any problems with this.

If nothing like this has EVER been discussed at all between you two then your "red flags" are probably valid.

Might as well discuss the matter with him asap and get it all out in the open.
That is the only way you are going to be able to figure out if the "trust" and relationship you have is salvageable or not.

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