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Question: Any suggestions as to clubs, and how we set boundaries?

Dear Lounge Advice,

I am heading to Miami in February. My wife is pretty Vanilla, but has expressed an interest in voyerism. She gets hot thinking about us fucking while others watch. Any suggestions as to clubs, and how we set boundaries?

I would like this potential experience to lead to more uninhibited ones, with more participants.

Any thoughts on how I should proceed?



Dear (Anonymous),

Check out our Events section on our Home page
for the dates you are traveling to Florida and
see if there are any parties or events being held close to the area you will be staying.
There is also a Clubs link that you can review to locate "lifestyle" friendly Clubs & parties that occur regularly.

IMHO attending an event or two together is the best way to get your feet wet in the swinging lifestyle.

Talk together upfront before you both attend anything, set up your "boundaries& comfort zones" in advance and both of you be on the same page prior to walking in…if you need any at all.

Be "upfront" to people & couples that you meet about why you are there and what your fantasy is.
That will be a good "ice breaker" and set the tone for the evening well in advance of any playtime.
There are lots of couples who get their feet wet in the lifestyle by having sex together while others watch and or visa versa….you watching them.

Good luck & have fun !

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