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Question: Why is no one contacting us? We are attractive!

Dear Lounge Advice,
Hi,when I look around the site and see all the beautiful people I often wonder when they say lookin for attractive fit couples if I actually fit into that category. I feel confident about myself for I have Modeled and Was an exotic dancer for a few years. I definatly enjoyed the times I had.
Lately I have wondered really what other people think. I have been in chat(but since im not a full member yet~) dont get to greet people back. I wonder if I fit in. Should say we but this is my feelings. (Troy)I want to meet other fun couples but I have a great fear of rejection.So Im shy at first but then turn it up..
HELP!!!!

Troy

Sincerely,

(Anonymous)

  
Dear (Anonymous),

First of all... if you are serious about meeting other couples... we would suggest that you at least become a full member and at least give LL a chance.

Many couples will not even respond to people who are not full members as they seem to be not serious about this. It is a very small price to pay for the fun and experiences you can have.

Secondly, you say you are a couple but post no pictures of your female half. This is also a major red flag to most people. There are many levels of protection for your confidentiality for paying members. If you fear the first photo then you can always blur your faces. But if you are a couple... show it.

After doing this we are confident that if you are what you say... you will be contacted a great deal and hopefully your fear of rejection will assuage.
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