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Question: I am very bi-curious but was raised that sex is very serious. How do I start exploring?
Dear Lounge Advice,
My husband and I are interested in this lifestyle. I myself am a very bi-curious female. So the whats the problem? Well, I am a very shy person, even more so about my body. I was raised that sex was a very serious thing-but I want it to be fun. I want to see what its like with a women- but have no idea what to do! How can we become more involved in this lifestyle- and let others know that I need a good school teacher?
We get asked this type of question a lot... the good news for you is that what you are feelings is very normal and most people experience the same thing.
Most of us are raised to beleive that sex is a very serious and private thing. The other good news is that there are places that you can go where that exploration is also considered "normal"
What we suggest is that you use the "Clubs" section of the Lifestyle Lounge to identify local couples clubs or parties/socials in your area. Go to some of the clubs or functions and just observe.
There you will see that bi-sexuality among women is pretty much accepted and out in the open. You can see women dancing with each other and kissing/exploring in an atmosphere that is non-threatening.
You guys dont have to "do" anything... but you will be able to at least explore how you feel about it and let you guide yourselves from there.
As newbies you may also wish to visit our informational website at www.zacnzoey.com and read our archived questions here. Since many questions are common one, hopefully that will give you some good direction to start.
If you have any more specific questions, do not hesitate to ask.
Good luck and have fun !!! Thats what this is all about!!!
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