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Question: My wife has indicated she was bi.. but changed her mind... and now says she may do it if she is drunk.

Dear Lounge Advice,

My wife has made out with a girl before and told me that thinking about it made her wet. She also was giddy admitting she was bi. However now she says that she is not, but says that she'd probably do it again if she were drunk.

Every Thursday, she goes out with my cousin's fiance and occasionally get into talking about the "stuff" they've done, like kissing a girl, having a threesome, etc.

I can't tell wether my wife will actually do it again. She's had a threesome many times with myself and a friend of mine. Which I can't wait to happen again. But I'd love to have an orgy with my cousin and his fiance.

How do I go about suggesting this to them and actually making it happen?



Dear (Anonymous),

We are not really big on anyone considering doing something if they need to be drunk to consider doing it.

Instead of preying on your cousin's fiancee, why not take her to a local couples club or party in your area where there are sure to be bi women there, and she can see how she feels when she witnesses it in an atmosphere that it is accepted- and NOT when she is drunk.

The whole cousin thing seems a little too close for comfort, but then again, we are not into the whole family clan thing. Who are we to be critical? Many people would think what we do in the Lifestyle is gross.

We know of no way to suggest anything to anyone that can actually make it happen. If you do bring it up, and if your cousin thinks the idea is a little gross like we do, you may get a bad reaction from him.

Consider the consequences before you act on this.
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