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Question: We want to find a woman who will just play with the lady.. and let my boyfriend watch... any suggestions on where to find her?

Dear Lounge Advice,

My lover and I have been in the lifestyle for a few years now and have experienced many things from couples play to threesomes to orgies. I have found, however, that now I truly would only like to have threesomes with my lover and another women. I am truly happy with MY man and really like the touch of women. My lover does not mind if I am involved with only the woman as long as he is in the same room (what man wouldn't want to watch that?). What is the best way for us to find single women that are interested? I know this is a common question for many lifestylers, but in our area there are only three or four single women listed. Any suggestions? Other websites?

Your advice will be greatly appreciated.



Dear (Anonymous),

Unfortunately as you may already know... single bi fems are like commodities... and we are all victim to the laws of supply and demand.

One other suggestion is that you try to find couples that are only interested in "girls play" or are ok with just letting the girls play and having the men observe.

Again it all depends on the people involved.. but you are more able to find that than you are chasing the elusive single girl who is wanting to join you.. its just a numbers game !!

Sorry we do not have the magic answer for you on this... and if we had it... just like the Iraqi Information Minister... we would share it with you all !!!
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