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Question: My wife says she cannot find men that she finds attractive.

Dear Lounge Advice,
My wife and I just jumped into the lifestyle. The real problem seems to be that whenever we meet people she judges the men unfit... I am not that goodlooking myself so I just don't know where the problem lies. We are very open to one another and she claims that she would love to 'do' it with the right guy.
She masturbates and watches me having fun, but is'avoiding' other men to get close.
Any ideas what could be the issue other than looks?
Ta ta



Dear (Anonymous),

Some women find the Lifestyle very erotic and love watching their hubbies with other women.. but they are just not interested in having sex with other men.

Everyone has their own definition of what they find "attractive" and you just have to respect that.

It doesnt sound as if she is not open to the idea of this... you just need to be patient until she find someone that fits her definition.

You way wish to discuss with her whether she really wants to be with other men... she may be using the attraction as an excuse. Just be sensative to what she says.
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